AUTHOR=Lima Eleonora , Morisseau Tiffany TITLE=Can chatbots teach us how to behave? Examining assumptions about user interactions with AI assistants and their social implications JOURNAL=Frontiers in Artificial Intelligence VOLUME=Volume 8 - 2025 YEAR=2025 URL=https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/artificial-intelligence/articles/10.3389/frai.2025.1545607 DOI=10.3389/frai.2025.1545607 ISSN=2624-8212 ABSTRACT=In this article we examine the issue of AI assistants, and the way they respond to insults and sexually explicit requests. Public concern over these responses, particularly because AI assistants are usually female-voiced, prompted tech companies to make them more assertive. Researchers have explored whether these female-voiced AI assistants could encourage abusive behavior and reinforce societal sexism. However, the extent and nature of the problem are unclear due to a lack of data on user interactions. By combining psychological and socio-cultural perspectives, we problematize these assumptions and outline a number of research questions for leveraging AI assistants to promote gender inclusivity more effectively.