REVIEW article
Front. Sociol.
Sec. Sociology of Families
Beyond Victimhood: Rethinking Child Transformation and Communicative Resilience Post Parental Divorce in Indonesian
Provisionally accepted
- 1Pamulang University, Tangerang, Indonesia
- 2IPB University, Bogor, Indonesia
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This study re-examines the experiences of children of divorced parents within Indonesia’s collectivist and religious context through the lens of the Communication Theory of Resilience and Negotiated Identity Theory. It introduces the Transformative Communication of Resilience Model, which conceptualizes resilience as a communicative, relational, and meaning-making process rather than a static psychological trait. The model identifies five interrelated dimensions–Strategic Construction of Normalcy, Identity Transformation Process, Relational Communication Architecture, Cultural and Religious Meaning-Making, Emotional Negotiation, and the Paradox of Resilience–to explain how children reconstruct identity, reframe trauma, and develop agency through dialogue and social interaction. Findings reveal that children are not passive victims but active communicative subjects who negotiate stigma, gendered expectations, and moral judgment while transforming pain into adaptive narratives of growth. Communication functions as both a healing mechanism and a performative act of social resilience, enabling children to redefine their belonging within supportive relational and cultural networks. The practical implications extend to education, counseling, and policy, emphasizing communicative spaces that empower children’s voices and promote emotional literacy, narrative reflection, and cultural inclusivity. Ultimately, resilience is reframed as a transformative communicative act linking trauma to self-redefinition and fostering an inclusive understanding of family and identity in post-divorce contexts.
Keywords: Communication of Resilience, Divorce, Child identity, Meaning negotiation, socialstigma, Adaptive Transformation
Received: 17 Jul 2025; Accepted: 31 Oct 2025.
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* Correspondence: Iis Mardiansyah, mardiansyah.iis@apps.ipb.ac.id
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